Blog & Resources
What Anxiety Really Is: Understanding Your Nervous System's Alarm System
Wondering why you feel anxious even when nothing seems wrong? Learn how anxiety affects the nervous system and why your brain and body may be sounding an alarm even when you're safe.
Common Intuitive Eating Misconceptions That Keep People Stuck
Discover common misconceptions about intuitive eating and why healing your relationship with food involves more than “just listening to your body.”
Why EMDR Therapy Helps When You “Know Better” But Still Feel Stuck
Do you intellectually understand your patterns but still feel emotionally stuck? Learn how EMDR therapy helps heal the nervous system and trauma responses at Resilient Counseling
What Is Food Noise? Understanding the Mental Chatter Around Food
Learn what food noise is, why it happens, and how trauma, dieting, anxiety, and eating disorders can contribute to constant thoughts about food.
How EMDR Therapy Helps Heal Trauma Without Reliving Every Detail
Learn how EMDR therapy helps people heal from trauma, anxiety, and distressing memories without having to retell every painful detail. Discover the benefits of EMDR therapy at Resilient Counseling.
Intuition vs. Trauma Voices: How to Tell the Difference and Trust Yourself Again
Learn the difference between intuition and trauma voices, how trauma affects self-trust, and how to listen to your inner signals with compassion using a trauma-informed approach.
EMDR Confidence Lab: A Consultation Space for Therapists Ready to Feel More Grounded, Clear, and Confident
The EMDR Confidence Lab is a structured, supportive consultation space designed specifically for newly trained EMDR therapists who want to build real clinical confidence—not just check a box for hours.
Understanding Trauma: Unraveling the Impact and Healing Process
Trauma is a term that’s often thrown around, especially today but its depth and complexity are often misunderstood. As a therapist who specializes in trauma, I can tell you that it’s far more than a mere "bad experience." Trauma can have lasting effects on the mind, body, and emotions, influencing our relationships and behaviors in ways we may not even fully understand. In this post, we’ll explore what trauma is, the different types of trauma, and most importantly, how individuals can heal.
Anxiety in High Achievers: Why Success Doesn’t Always Equal Peace of Mind
High achievers often push themselves to excel, but true success includes mental and emotional well-being. Recognizing and addressing anxiety doesn’t mean giving up ambition—it means creating a healthier foundation to sustain it.
What’s a “Trigger” Really? (And Why the TikTok Version Doesn’t Quite Get It)
Let’s talk about one of the most popular buzzwords in the world of mental health: trigger. It seems like every time we scroll through social media, watch a Bravo show, or even overhear conversations, we hear someone saying, “Ugh, I’m so triggered right now!” But as a therapist, I can’t help but notice that this term has continued to morph into something far removed from its true meaning. I first wrote about triggers back in 2018. So let’s take another dive in with a bit of humor and a lot of heart—what exactly is a “trigger,” and why is the cultural version of it not quite on the mark?
Skinny and Thin Feel the Same When You’re in a Larger Body
Skinny and thin often feel the same to people in larger bodies. Learn why size language doesn’t change lived experience — and how to care for your nervous system in a weight-biased world.
How to Be a Therapist When the World Feels Like It’s Falling Apart
How do therapists keep showing up when the world feels unstable? A trauma-informed perspective on practicing therapy during political, social, and systemic collapse.
Feeling Behind in Life as an Adult
Feeling behind in life as an adult is more common than you think. Learn why this feeling happens, how comparison culture fuels it, and how to move forward with compassion instead of pressure.
Lessons from the Mat: When Yoga Becomes a Teacher for Life
Yoga is often marketed as a way to stretch, strengthen, and de-stress. And yes, it does all of that. But for many of us who return to the mat again and again, yoga becomes something deeper: a quiet teacher offering life lessons that ripple far beyond the studio.
Through breath, movement, stillness, and self-study, yoga gently reshapes how we relate to our bodies, our minds, and the world around us. Here are some of the most meaningful life lessons learned from practicing yoga, and how they show up in everyday life.
When the World Is Still on Fire (And What Actually Helps)
When the world feels like it’s on fire and getting worse, positive thinking isn’t enough. Learn what actually helps regulate your nervous system without bypassing or minimizing reality.
Understanding the Components of Body Image: A Therapist’s Perspective
Body image is more than appearance. Discover the main components of body image and how they impact confidence, healing, and self-connection.
IFS and EMDR: How These Two Trauma Therapies Work Together
Discover how IFS and EMDR work together in trauma therapy to create safety, reduce overwhelm, and gently heal complex trauma and attachment wounds.
What Is Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy? Understanding “Parts Work” for Healing and Self-Compassion
What if nothing about you is wrong? Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy helps you understand your protective parts and reconnect with your calm, compassionate Self. Discover a new path to healing.
Winter Solstice: What the Darkest Day Teaches Us
The winter solstice marks the shortest day and longest night of the year. Across cultures, it has long been honored as a sacred pause—a moment to slow down, turn inward, and trust that light will return. I got inspired today to theme a yin yoga class I taught today around Winter Solstice, especially when it happened to be Winter Solstice when I taught it. And if you didn’t know, yep, I am also a yoga teacher in addition to being a therapist.
What the Therapy Session on RHOSLC Gets Right About Real Trauma Therapy
Reality TV doesn’t always portray therapy accurately (see my previous blog about SLOMW), but the recent therapy session on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City (RHOSLC) with Ms. I have an announcement aka Britani Bateman and her daughter surprised many viewers—and many trauma therapists—by showing what real trauma therapy can actually look like.