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Lessons from the Mat: When Yoga Becomes a Teacher for Life

Yoga is often marketed as a way to stretch, strengthen, and de-stress. And yes, it does all of that. But for many of us who return to the mat again and again, yoga becomes something deeper: a quiet teacher offering life lessons that ripple far beyond the studio.

Through breath, movement, stillness, and self-study, yoga gently reshapes how we relate to our bodies, our minds, and the world around us. Here are some of the most meaningful life lessons learned from practicing yoga, and how they show up in everyday life.



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Winter Solstice: What the Darkest Day Teaches Us 

The winter solstice marks the shortest day and longest night of the year. Across cultures, it has long been honored as a sacred pause—a moment to slow down, turn inward, and trust that light will return. I got inspired today to theme a yin yoga class I taught today around Winter Solstice, especially when it happened to be Winter Solstice when I taught it. And if you didn’t know, yep, I am also a yoga teacher in addition to being a therapist.

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What the Therapy Session on RHOSLC Gets Right About Real Trauma Therapy

Reality TV doesn’t always portray therapy accurately (see my previous blog about SLOMW), but the recent therapy session on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City (RHOSLC) with Ms. I have an announcement aka Britani Bateman and her daughter surprised many viewers—and many trauma therapists—by showing what real trauma therapy can actually look like.

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Why the EMDR Session on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Was Not a Good Example of EMDR

Reality TV loves a dramatic therapy moment—but EMDR (and therapy) is not drama. It’s neuroscience, structure, pacing, dual awareness, safety, and a carefully attuned therapeutic relationship. Unfortunately, the EMDR session shown on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives has sparked confusion among viewers, therapists, and potential clients who are trying to understand what EMDR actually is.

As an EMDR therapist trained in trauma, dissociation, and nervous system–based work, I want to clarify why the session featured on the show is not representative of EMDR practice—and what ethical, trauma-informed EMDR really involves.

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Understanding Dissociation – What It Feels Like and How Therapy Can Help

Dissociation is a term you may have heard in conversations about trauma or mental health, but it can feel elusive or hard to describe. At its core, dissociation is a psychological response to overwhelming stress or trauma—an adaptive mechanism that allows a person to “disconnect” from experiences, emotions, or memories that feel too painful to process in the moment. While it can protect you in the short term, chronic dissociation can interfere with your ability to feel present, connect with others, and live fully in your body.


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Why Being "Strong" All the Time Isn’t Always Healthy: A Therapist’s Take

In our hustle culture and mental toughness era, being told you're “strong” might feel like the highest compliment. As a therapist, though, I often see the hidden pressure behind that word. The truth is, being strong all the time isn’t sustainable, and constantly striving for it can quietly erode your emotional well-being. It’s ok to not be ok. Being strong doesn’t mean you can’t express your feelings. Have a soft heart and a strong back. 






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How to Talk to Your Children and Teens About Mental Health Struggles

Mental health affects people of all ages, including children and teens. Many parents feel uncertain about how to start conversations about mental health struggles. Whether your child is experiencing anxiety, depression, or simply having a tough time, open, compassionate discussions are key to building emotional intelligence, resilience and a strong support system at home. Here’s how to approach these topics with your kids.


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