Blog & Resources
What If I Dissociate During EMDR? Understanding Dissociation and EMDR Therapy
Worried about dissociating during EMDR? Learn what dissociation is, what it can look like during therapy, and why preparation matters before trauma processing.
Scared to Try EMDR? Common Fears About EMDR Therapy (and Why They Don't Have to Stop Your Healing)
Wondering if EMDR therapy is scary? Learn what EMDR really feels like, common fears about trauma therapy, and how Resilient Counseling helps clients throughout Georgia and Florida heal safely.
Why EMDR Feels Different Than Talk Therapy (And Why That's Actually the Point)
Wondering why EMDR feels so different than traditional talk therapy? Learn how EMDR helps process trauma without spending years retelling your story.
Hyperindependence Isn't a Personality Trait (It's Probably a Trauma Response)
Think doing everything yourself is just "who you are"? Hyper-independence is often a trauma response. Learn how EMDR and IFS therapy can help you build safer, healthier connections.
Why EMDR Therapy Helps When You “Know Better” But Still Feel Stuck
Do you intellectually understand your patterns but still feel emotionally stuck? Learn how EMDR therapy helps heal the nervous system and trauma responses at Resilient Counseling
How EMDR Therapy Helps Heal Trauma Without Reliving Every Detail
Learn how EMDR therapy helps people heal from trauma, anxiety, and distressing memories without having to retell every painful detail. Discover the benefits of EMDR therapy at Resilient Counseling.
Intuition vs. Trauma Voices: How to Tell the Difference and Trust Yourself Again
Learn the difference between intuition and trauma voices, how trauma affects self-trust, and how to listen to your inner signals with compassion using a trauma-informed approach.
EMDR Confidence Lab: A Consultation Space for Therapists Ready to Feel More Grounded, Clear, and Confident
The EMDR Confidence Lab is a structured, supportive consultation space designed specifically for newly trained EMDR therapists who want to build real clinical confidence—not just check a box for hours.
Understanding Trauma: Unraveling the Impact and Healing Process
Trauma is a term that’s often thrown around, especially today but its depth and complexity are often misunderstood. As a therapist who specializes in trauma, I can tell you that it’s far more than a mere "bad experience." Trauma can have lasting effects on the mind, body, and emotions, influencing our relationships and behaviors in ways we may not even fully understand. In this post, we’ll explore what trauma is, the different types of trauma, and most importantly, how individuals can heal.
What’s a “Trigger” Really? (And Why the TikTok Version Doesn’t Quite Get It)
Let’s talk about one of the most popular buzzwords in the world of mental health: trigger. It seems like every time we scroll through social media, watch a Bravo show, or even overhear conversations, we hear someone saying, “Ugh, I’m so triggered right now!” But as a therapist, I can’t help but notice that this term has continued to morph into something far removed from its true meaning. I first wrote about triggers back in 2018. So let’s take another dive in with a bit of humor and a lot of heart—what exactly is a “trigger,” and why is the cultural version of it not quite on the mark?
IFS and EMDR: How These Two Trauma Therapies Work Together
Discover how IFS and EMDR work together in trauma therapy to create safety, reduce overwhelm, and gently heal complex trauma and attachment wounds.
What Is Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy? Understanding “Parts Work” for Healing and Self-Compassion
What if nothing about you is wrong? Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy helps you understand your protective parts and reconnect with your calm, compassionate Self. Discover a new path to healing.
Winter Solstice: What the Darkest Day Teaches Us
The winter solstice marks the shortest day and longest night of the year. Across cultures, it has long been honored as a sacred pause—a moment to slow down, turn inward, and trust that light will return. I got inspired today to theme a yin yoga class I taught today around Winter Solstice, especially when it happened to be Winter Solstice when I taught it. And if you didn’t know, yep, I am also a yoga teacher in addition to being a therapist.
What the Therapy Session on RHOSLC Gets Right About Real Trauma Therapy
Reality TV doesn’t always portray therapy accurately (see my previous blog about SLOMW), but the recent therapy session on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City (RHOSLC) with Ms. I have an announcement aka Britani Bateman and her daughter surprised many viewers—and many trauma therapists—by showing what real trauma therapy can actually look like.
Understanding Dissociation – What It Feels Like and How Therapy Can Help
Dissociation is a term you may have heard in conversations about trauma or mental health, but it can feel elusive or hard to describe. At its core, dissociation is a psychological response to overwhelming stress or trauma—an adaptive mechanism that allows a person to “disconnect” from experiences, emotions, or memories that feel too painful to process in the moment. While it can protect you in the short term, chronic dissociation can interfere with your ability to feel present, connect with others, and live fully in your body.